September 15: Groups Guide

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Love

Teaching Text:  ‭‭Luke 22: 7-34

Then came the day of Unleavened Bread on which the Passover lamb had to be sacrificed. Jesus sent Peter and John, saying, “Go and make preparations for us to eat the Passover.”

“Where do you want us to prepare for it?” they asked.

He replied, “As you enter the city, a man carrying a jar of water will meet you. Follow him to the house that he enters, and say to the owner of the house, ‘The Teacher asks: Where is the guest room, where I may eat the Passover with my disciples?’ He will show you a large room upstairs, all furnished. Make preparations there.”

They left and found things just as Jesus had told them. So they prepared the Passover.

When the hour came, Jesus and his apostles reclined at the table. And he said to them, “I have eagerly desired to eat this Passover with you before I suffer.For I tell you, I will not eat it again until it finds fulfillment in the kingdom of God.”

After taking the cup, he gave thanks and said, “Take this and divide it among you. For I tell you I will not drink again from the fruit of the vine until the kingdom of God comes.”

And he took bread, gave thanks and broke it, and gave it to them, saying, “This is my body given for you; do this in remembrance of me.”

In the same way, after the supper he took the cup, saying, “This cup is the new covenant in my blood, which is poured out for you. But the hand of him who is going to betray me is with mine on the table. The Son of Man will go as it has been decreed. But woe to that man who betrays him!” They began to question among themselves which of them it might be who would do this.

A dispute also arose among them as to which of them was considered to be greatest. Jesus said to them, “The kings of the Gentiles lord it over them; and those who exercise authority over them call themselves Benefactors. But you are not to be like that. Instead, the greatest among you should be like the youngest, and the one who rules like the one who serves. For who is greater, the one who is at the table or the one who serves? Is it not the one who is at the table? But I am among you as one who serves. You are those who have stood by me in my trials. And I confer on you a kingdom, just as my Father conferred one on me, so that you may eat and drink at my table in my kingdomand sit on thrones, judging the twelve tribes of Israel.

“Simon, Simon, Satan has asked to sift all of you as wheat. But I have prayed for you, Simon, that your faith may not fail. And when you have turned back, strengthen your brothers.”

But he replied, “Lord, I am ready to go with you to prison and to death.”

Jesus answered, “I tell you, Peter, before the rooster crows today, you will deny three times that you know me.”


Themes

Consider these themes and ask your group what else they see in the passage:

  • Vision Sundays | Formation | Tables


Formation 

Thoughts and notes you can use for discussion:

  • Describe one of the most memorable meals you’ve ever had and why it was so memorable.

  • Imagine yourself at the end of your life, looking back and asking yourself what matted most in your brief time on earth. 

ALTARS

  • We are answering the question, “What matters most?”

  • Jesus himself, when asked to summarize, said, “Love the Lord your God with all your heart, soul, mind, and strength. And love your neighbor as yourself.”

  • We are spending a few weeks this fall asking what is most important for us as a church. What is our VISION? 

 

PRESENCE - FORMATION - LOVE

  • That we are called to make this a priority as a church family, as people…to…

    • Be with God

    • Become like Jesus

    • Live by the Spirit

ALTARS + TABLES + GARDENS

  • We believe God is inviting us to… 

    • Build Altars - places where we are seeking God’s presence and mark that God has met with us

    • Set Tables - places of welcome, friendship, hospitality, where we are formed in community 

    • Tend Gardens - sow seeds of love, tend places where good things are growing, seek the fruit of the Kingdom of God

  • “If you can read the gospels without getting hungry, you are not paying attention.”

– Arthur Boers

  • In Luke 5 Jesus eats with tax collectors and sinners at Levis house.

  • In Luke 7 Jesus is anointed at the home of Simon the Pharisee during a meal.

  • In Luke 9 Jesus feeds the five thousand.

  • In Luke 10 Jesus eats at the home of Mary and Martha.

  • In Luke 11 Jesus condemns the Pharisees and teachers of the lay at a meal.

  • In Luke 14 Jesus is at a meal when he urges people to invite the poor to their meals rather than their friends.

  • In Luke 19 Jesus invites himself to dinner with Zachaeus.

  • In Luke 22 we have this account we heard today of the Last Supper.

  • In Luke 24 the risen Christ has a meal with the two disciples in Emmaus, and the later eats fish with the disciples in Jerusalem - thats where PETER is restored after his predicted denial 

  • ”The Son of Man came not to be served but to serve, and to give his life as a ransom for many.” (Mark 10;45); “The Son of Man came to seek and save the lost: (Luke 19:10); “The Son of Man came eating and drinking.” (Luke 7 v 34.) 

  • Tim Chester points out in his book A Meal with Jesus

    • “The first two are statements of purpose. Why did Jesus come? He came to serve, to give his life as a ransom, to seek and save the lost. The third is a statement of method. How was he going to do this? He came eating and drinking.”

– TIM CHESTER

THE SACRAMENT IS A MEAL 

  • “The blend of celebration and betrayal in the scene at supper is preparing us for the blend of triumph and tragedy in the crucifixion itself. Jesus accomplishes his true mission by being falsely accused. He achieves his divine vocation by submitting to the punishment that others had deserved. As God took the arrogant opposition of Pharaoh in Egypt and made it serve his own ends in the spectacular rescue of his people, so now, through this one man at supper with his friends, we see God doing the same thing. When the powers of evil do their worst, and crucify the one who brings God’s salvation, God uses that very event to defeat those powers.

    We who, daily, weekly or however often, come together to obey Jesus’ command, to break bread and drink wine in his memory, find ourselves drawn into that salvation, that healing life. The powers may still rage, like Pharaoh and his army pursuing the Egyptians after Passover. But they have been defeated, and rescue is secure.”

– NT WRIGHT

  • We grow through BREAKTHROUGHS and HABITS

  • What tables can you set?

  • What invitations can you extend? 

  • Where are you committed to showing up every day? Every week?

  • What are your practices and habits of formation?

  • Parents:

    • What table habits can you create that will immerse your kids in the value of hospitality?

    • Which non-married person/s could you invite over for a meal to welcome them and give the family time to hang out with?

    • How can your family show hospitality to the vulnerable and or under-resourced? 

  • For ideas on how to show hospitality through the Good Neighbor Collaborations, email Patricia Manwaringat patricia@trinitygracechurch.com


September 8: Groups Guide

About This Guide

The online groups guide is designed as a teaching series companion to foster discussion, study, and prayer, especially in a group setting.

Join a weekly group for a meaningful way to connect to our community.

pdf download

Download this PDF to help you make a plan to follow Jesus in your everyday life, including diagnostic questions to help get you started.

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Questions about the series or looking for a way to get involved? Contact us.


Love

Teaching Text:  ‭‭Genesis 3: 8-9

Then the man and his wife heard the sound of the Lord God as he was walkingin the garden in the cool of the day, and they hid from the Lord God among the trees of the garden. But the Lord God called to the man, “Where are you?”

Revelation 21: 2-3

I saw the Holy City, the new Jerusalem, coming down out of heaven from God,prepared as a bride beautifully dressed for her husband. And I heard a loud voice from the throne saying, “Look! God’s dwelling place is now among the people, and he will dwell with them. They will be his people, and God himself will be with them and be their God.


Themes

Consider these themes and ask your group what else they see in the passage:

  • Vision Sundays | Pressnce | Altars


Formation 

Thoughts and notes you can use for discussion:

  • What aspects or traditions do you like most about the fall?

  • What are you personally excited about this Fall? 

  • The world we live in keeps us perpetually in An Imminent Frame

    • What urgent language in our world can you recall? 

  • The thing we lose is TRANSCENDENCE

    What matter most? 

    So many opinions about what matters most. 

  • And we wanted to take these few weeks at the beginning of the fall as to celebrate 15 years and move into all that God has next for us to center in on what is most important for Trinity Grace.

  • At our 10 year anniversary as a church GOD spoke some words to us. Simplified the expression of our vision. It wasn’t utterly new, but it was a sharpening of what we had been living.

    • PRESENCE. FORMATION. LOVE

    • Be with God. Become like Jesus. Live by the Spirit 

  • MAKE ALTARS - places of God’s revealed presence

    SET TABLES - places of friendship, hospitality and love 

    TEND GARDENS - places where the things of the Kingdom grow.

  • ALTARS + TABLES + GARDENS

    • These are places of a presence, formation, and love. They are spaces we build and set apart, we set up and host, we sow seeds and join in cultivation.

    • Places to consecrate and seek God's face. (prayer events becoming a prayer culture)

    • Places to gather and be formed in hospitality and love. (discipleship in groups and specific equipping, growth in hospitality)

    • Places where good things grow, things of the Kingdom, seeds becoming fruit. (seeds of service, love, partnership, growing and harvesting for others)

  • This begins with God’s Presence

    • Then Moses said to him, “If your Presence does not go with us, do not send us up from here. How will anyone know that you are pleased with me and with your people unless you go with us? What else will distinguish me and your people from all the other people on the face of the earth?” 

      And the Lord said to Moses, “I will do the very thing you have asked, because I am pleased with you and I know you by name.”
      – Exodus 33

  • This is our prayer - God your presence is what matters most and if we have come to place where that isn’t the case will you renew our hearts and minds.

    • The Presence and the manifestation of the Presence are not the same. There can be the one without the other. God is here when we are wholly unaware of it. He is manifest only when and as we are aware of His Presence. On our part there must be surrender to the Spirit of God, for His work it is to show us the Father and the Son. If we co-operate with Him in loving obedience God will manifest Himself to us, and that manifestation will be the difference between a nominal Christian life and a life radiant with the light of His face.

      – A.W. Tozer

    • Importance of presence throughout scripture… 

      • In Eden, it is the loss of a sense of God’s presence that we look on at in sadness as Adam and Eve hide in fear from the God they walked with the cool of the evening.

        • And the restoration of our union with God in that way weaves through the whole story 

      • Jacob wrestling with God at Bethel and making an Altar to mark where he had met and wrestled with God 

      • Moses in his tent of meeting, as a precursor to the tabenacle - a place to speak and be spoken to by God as a friend 

      • David - longing to make a place - a house for God - and you can take a deep dive studying David’s tabernacle as a place where he sang and worshipped and ached and celebrated in prayer, writing Psalms, marked by and making God’s presence

      • Jesus - could have prayed anywhere - but he had a custom of drawing away, early in the morning, late the evening, drawing away to be with the Father - he had places, gardens, groves of trees where he went AS HIS CUSTOM WAS - he also also gathered to worship with his neighbors - making altars and sanctuaries in time and place.

      • and the final picture we are given in Revelation is a PRESENCE picture, a marker of where God is with his people, an altar in the text…

        • I saw the Holy City, the new Jerusalem, coming down out of heaven from God, prepared as a bride beautifully dressed for her husband. And I heard a loud voice from the throne saying, “Look! God’s dwelling place is now among the people, and he will dwell with them. They will be his people, and God himself will be with them and be their God. 

          – Revelation 21:2-3

  • What is MOST important to you this Fall? What Matters MOST? 

  • Where do you 3want God to meet with you?

  • What parts of your life do you want to consecrate to Jesus? 

  • How can you make time to be with Jesus?


June 23: Groups Guide

About This Guide

The online groups guide is designed as a teaching series companion to foster discussion, study, and prayer, especially in a group setting.

Join a weekly group for a meaningful way to connect to our community.

pdf download

Download this PDF to help you make a plan to follow Jesus in your everyday life, including diagnostic questions to help get you started.

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more Resources

Explore a curated online collection of recommended practices and resources to pursue presence, formation, and love in your life.

Questions about the series or looking for a way to get involved? Contact us.


Love

Teaching Text:  ‭‭1 Corinthians 12: 1-11 and 27-31

Now about the gifts of the Spirit, brothers and sisters, I do not want you to be uninformed. You know that when you were pagans, somehow or other you were influenced and led astray to mute idols. Therefore I want you to know that no one who is speaking by the Spirit of God says, “Jesus be cursed,” and no one can say, “Jesus is Lord,” except by the Holy Spirit.

There are different kinds of gifts, but the same Spirit distributes them. There are different kinds of service, but the same Lord. There are different kinds of working, but in all of them and in everyone it is the same God at work.

Now to each one the manifestation of the Spirit is given for the common good. To one there is given through the Spirit a message of wisdom, to another a message of knowledge by means of the same Spirit, to another faith by the same Spirit, to another gifts of healing by that one Spirit, to another miraculous powers, to another prophecy, to another distinguishing between spirits, to another speaking in different kinds of tongues, and to still another the interpretation of tongues. All these are the work of one and the same Spirit, and he distributes them to each one, just as he determines.

Now you are the body of Christ, and each one of you is a part of it. And God has placed in the church first of all apostles, second prophets, third teachers, then miracles, then gifts of healing, of helping, of guidance, and of different kinds of tongues. Are all apostles? Are all prophets? Are all teachers? Do all work miracles?Do all have gifts of healing? Do all speak in tongues? Do all interpret? Now eagerly desire the greater gifts.


Themes

Consider these themes and ask your group what else they see in the passage:

  • FILLED WITH THE SPIRIT | Meditations on the Ministry of the Holy Spirit

  • Gifts of the Spirit


Formation 

Thoughts and notes you can use for discussion:

  • What special ability do you have that people in your group does not know about? 

  • Resume Virtues and Eulogy Virtues.

    • “The resume virtues are the ones you list on your resume, the skills that you bring to the job market and that contribute to external success. The eulogy virtues are deeper. They’re the virtues that get talked about at your funeral, the ones that exist at the core of your being - whether you are kind, brave, honest or faithful; what kind of relationships you formed.

      Most of us would say that the eulogy virtues are more important than the resume virtues, but I confess that for long stretches of my life I’ve spent more time thinking about the latter than the former. Our education system is certainly oriented around the resume virtues more than the eulogy ones. Public conversation is, too - the self-help tips in magazines, the nonfiction bestsellers. Most of us have clearer strategies for how to achieve career success than we do for how to develop a profound character.”

      – David Brooks

    • God is a wild life artist. Eugene Peterson has said this in his book Run with the Horses

      “Every time that there is a story of faith, it is completely original. God's creative genius is endless. He never, fatigued and unable to maintain the rigors of creativity, resorts to mass-producing copies. Each life is a fresh canvas on which he uses lines and colors, shades and lights, textures and proportions that he has never used before.

       

      We see what is possible: anyone and everyone is able to live a zestful life that spills out of the stereotyped containers that a sin-inhibited society provides. Such lives fuse spontaneity and purpose and green the desiccated landscape with meaning. And we see how it is possible: by plunging into a life of faith, participating in what God initiates in each life, exploring what God is doing in each event. The persons we meet on the pages of Scripture are remarkable for the intensity with which they live Godward, the thoroughness in which all the details of their lives are included in God's word to them, in God's action in them. It is these persons who are conscious of participating in what God is saying and doing that are most human, most alive. These persons are evidence that none of us is required to live "at this poor dying rate" for another day, another hour.”

      – Eugene Peterson

    • God is an artist with our lives, but beautifully God is not simply making us into something, but inviting us into a story, giving us gifts along the way, filling our spirits with the Spirit of God in this kind of friendship dance.

  • When God wants to build something, God equips people with gifts.

    • Corinth - was a city and church where God was clearly at work - they saw fruit in the Gospel and outpourings of the power of the Holy Spirit, but we also know they dealt with..

      • divisions over leadership 

      • jealousy and quarreling 

      • obvious and public sexual sin 

      • indulgence and forgetting the others in the body

      • spiritual pride 

      • confusion and even chaos in their gatherings 

    • Their gifts were greater than their maturity - it is interesting that this then is the letter in the New Testament with some of the most extended teaching on the spiritual gifts.

  • Our strengths and weaknesses are often intermingled and what can make us great can threaten our downfall. And where we most need help may be the place God is most clearly seen in our lives. 

  • The Spirit of God is always lifting up Christ.

    • There are different kinds of gifts, but the same Spirit distributes them. There are different kinds of service, but the same Lord. There are different kinds of working, but in all of them and in everyone it is the same God at work. 

      Now to each one the manifestation of the Spirit is given for the common good.”

      – 1 Corinthians 12 v 4-7

  • These are two huge errors the church can make…

    • Demanding each story to look the same.

      or 

    • Missing that each person’s gifts are not just for them but for the body.

  • We see this in the American church in 

    • Rigid behavior modification in a given community - wells vs fences

    • Celebrity Christianity - overly exalting someone because of their gifts

    • Phariseeism - clean up the outside but your heart is heart 

    • Second hand christianity - that person will do the God seeking so I don’t have to

  • If you are in Christ you are given the Holy Spirit

  • If you are in Christ you are gifted by the Holy Spirit

    • You are gifted by the Spirit to love well.

    • You are gifted by the Spirit to lift up Christ.

    • You are gifted by the Spirit so the body of Christ can this shining outpost of the Kingdom of God, tabernacle that it is meant to be.

  • Message of Wisdom – applying knowledge of God and His Word to specific areas of life, making sense of a moral dilemma, I need wisdom here.

  • Message of Knowledge – similar but more to do with navigating a particularly difficult to understand issue and making it clear. Help me in this confusion. 

    • Wisdom is the decision

    • Knowledge is the clarity.

  • Faith – seeing situations with Gods power in perspective, remembering that all things are possible with God. Trusting God’s character and promise in the real details of life

  • Healings – this is the plural which means can happen at times, not necessarily always, and God gives the power for instant or gradual healing. WE should be praying for healing!!

  • Miraculous Powers – asking an evil Spirit to leave a person, having a vision of something that will happen, praying for someone to live who has died. 

  • Prophecy – sensing Gods heart on a matter and redirecting people by sharing it, Scripture, pictures, words

  • Discernment between spirits – being able to sense when motives are impure,  being able to tell when something is not from God

  • Speaking in Tongues – praying in a language that is not understood by the speaker, happened at Pentecost and all heard, happens in private prayer, if it happens publically in church then it is meant to have an interpretation

  • Interpretation of Tongues –  the ability to interpret what has been said it tongues

  • Apostolic – visionary, pioneering work in the Kingdom of God

  • Which of these do you think you have? 

  • These are way to love one another

    Ways for Jesus to be lifted up

    And you are gifted by the Spirit

  • Spiritual gifts emerge in the body of Christ as we…

    • Walk in friendship with Jesus – ABIDE is what the Jesus calls this

    • Speak the Gospel to your heart

    • Regularly spend time in extended prayer

    • Practice speaking with God through your day

    • Hide His word in your heart

    • Meet regularly with the church

    • Have people in your life with permission to call you to Jesus

    • Take risks of obedience when given

  • Take Opportunities of Service – when you have chances to serve even if you are not sure yet what you GIFTS are, begin serving

    • Understanding for Christians is often on the other side of obedience

  • Follow the Clues of your Passions – look at what makes your heart race

    • Look at what you have imagination for

    • Look at what bothers you in our church

    • How are you meant to BE THE CHANGE YOU WANT TO SEE

  • Follow the Clues of Confirmations from Community

    • Pay attention when those in your community feel deeply encouraged by your service

    • Pay attention when you are being used to build the body up

    • Paul reminded Timothy that the church had prayed words over Him about his calling

  • Practice Using Gifts  - once you get an idea about something realize that it will take development

    • A gift can be neglected

    • Practice in your Life Group – you may sense God gving you special insight for a person

    • You may notice a skill at explaining hard to grasp things

    • You may sense it is easy for you to bring people and be open about your faith

    • You may have vision for new things your life group or our church could do

  • Capacity - God has given you gift but you may not know yet the space it will fill 

  • Development - is in consistency 

  • Acceleration - acceleration is a gift God occasionally gives


June 16: Groups Guide

About This Guide

The online groups guide is designed as a teaching series companion to foster discussion, study, and prayer, especially in a group setting.

Join a weekly group for a meaningful way to connect to our community.

pdf download

Download this PDF to help you make a plan to follow Jesus in your everyday life, including diagnostic questions to help get you started.

Pickup a print version at our weekly in-person Sunday gatherings.

more Resources

Explore a curated online collection of recommended practices and resources to pursue presence, formation, and love in your life.

Questions about the series or looking for a way to get involved? Contact us.


Love

Teaching Text:  ‭‭1 John‬ ‭2‬:‭ 29‭‭ - ‭3‬: ‭2

If you know that he is righteous, you know that everyone who does what is right has been born of him. See what great love the Father has lavished on us, that we should be called children of God! And that is what we are! The reason the world does not know us is that it did not know him. Dear friends, now we are children of God, and what we will be has not yet been made known. But we know that when Christ appears, we shall be like him, for we shall see him as he is.


Themes

Consider these themes and ask your group what else they see in the passage:

  • FILLED WITH THE SPIRIT | Meditations on the Ministry of the Holy Spirit

  • Seal | Evidence of Adoption


Formation 

Thoughts and notes you can use for discussion:

  • What are some unique personality traits in your family of origin? 

  • What are some habits that are unique to your family growing up?

  • A family image. 

  • In the book of Genesis, the author is describing the thought process of the creator God and writes:

    “Then God said, “Let us make mankind in our image, in our likeness, so that they may rule over the fish in the sea and the birds in the sky, over the livestock and all the wild animals, and over all the creatures that move along the ground.” So God created mankind in his own image, in the image of God he created them; male and female he created them.”

    – ‭‭Genesis‬ ‭1‬:‭26‬-‭27‬ ‭‬‬

  • Image: the Hebrew word is selem and in the bible it is mostly used— outside of this verse and a few others in Genesis—to describe idols. We tend to talk about idols today in sort of metaphorical terms: things that we build our lives and worth around that are not God (work as an idol, marriage as an idol, etc. But biblically idols were very literal—they were structures made of materials that people carved or smelted into the shape of other created things (whether animals or other humans) and then they worshipped those structures.

    • “You have lifted up the shrine of your king, the pedestal of your idols, the star of your god— which you made for yourselves.”

      ‭‭– Amos‬ ‭5‬:‭26‬

  • That same word is used in the psalms to describe a phantom or a shadow—something that has form, but no substance—like the same way a ghost is an image of a human being, but is in fact disconnected from its life source.

    • “Surely everyone goes around like a mere phantom; in vain they rush about, heaping up wealth without knowing whose it will finally be.”

      ‭‭– Psalms‬ ‭39‬:‭6‬

  • God takes his image very seriously. Later in Genesis, God is speaking—making a new covenant with Noah. God says:

    • “Whoever sheds human blood, by humans shall their blood be shed; for in the image of God has God made mankind.”

      – ‭‭Genesis‬ ‭9‬:‭6‬‬‬

  • You and every person you have ever met carries the image of the creator. Being made in the image of God means that you have inherent worth and value as derived from the one who gave you that image. 

  • The word “Likeness” (in Hebrew demut): is used to compare things that are similar in substance.  This one thing is like this one other thing—they share a quality or qualities.

  • When Isaiah is prophesying trying to put into words what he’s hearing, he says:

    Listen, a noise on the mountains, like that of a great multitude! Listen, an uproar among the kingdoms, like nations massing together! The Lord Almighty is mustering an army for war.

    Isaiah‬ ‭13‬:‭4‬ ‭NIV‬‬

  • We were created in God’s image and likeness. We both bear the mark of creator God in our physical bodies, but we were also meant to share in his character–in the substance of who he is. 

    • The image of God in you is immutable. It cannot be changed. 

    • Wherever you are, whatever you do in this world, you will always carry the indelible mark of the one who created you. We look like our Father.

    • So we carry the indelible mark of our creator, but the fall did happen. And part of what was broken or injured was the likeness. The separation that humanity experienced made us not unlike the phantom images the psalmists wrote about. The events in the garden disconnected us from the source of life and cast a shadow over the likeness of God in us.  

  • And that is what Jesus came to repair.  It says in Colossians that:
    For God was pleased to have all his fullness dwell in him…

    – ‭‭Colossians‬ ‭1‬:‭19‬

  • Jesus came and showed us how to live, not only as an image of God, but also in his likeness–the full likeness of God, in Jesus.

    • Jesus, through his life, showed us how to live by the power of the spirit–the spirit is what re-creates us the likeness of God that was marred in the garden.

    • “Now the one who has fashioned us for this very purpose is God, who has given us the Spirit as a deposit, guaranteeing what is to come.”

      – ‭‭2 Corinthians‬ ‭5‬:‭5‬

  • In the biblical story, seals were a big deal.  It was the way you authenticate a message from a person of importance, usually a king.  It indicates a decision that cannot be changed.

    • “Now write another decree in the king’s name in behalf of the Jews as seems best to you, and seal it with the king’s signet ring—for no document written in the king’s name and sealed with his ring can be revoked.”

      – ‭‭Esther‬ ‭8‬:‭8‬

  • The clear implication here is that once you believe the good news and receive the Holy Spirit. That the King—our living and eternal king has made a decision about you that cannot be changed

  • Here, the thing that is promised, the thing that God has sealed and made an irrevocable deposit toward is our full and complete redemption. 

    • Like the immutable image of God in us, the seal and deposit of the Holy Spirit makes God’s likeness in us an inevitability—it makes it a promise. This is the description that Paul is giving us and the picture that John is painting for us.

    • When you see Jesus, you will be like him. You will be like him. Somehow in the mystery of the gospel and of grace, by the power of the holy spirit, what was lost in the garden will be fully restored to us when we see our savior face-to-face.

  • There will be an unmistakable family resemblance—not just appearance, but also character.

    • That is the power of the Holy Spirit in our lives—reconciliation into the family of God. 

    • “But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, forbearance, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control. Against such things there is no law.”

      ‭‭– Galatians‬ ‭5‬:‭22‬-‭23‬


June 9: Groups Guide

About This Guide

The online groups guide is designed as a teaching series companion to foster discussion, study, and prayer, especially in a group setting.

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Love

Teaching Text:  John 14: 25-27

“All this I have spoken while still with you. But the Advocate, the Holy Spirit, whom the Father will send in my name, will teach you all things and will remind you of everything I have said to you. Peace I leave with you; my peace I give you. I do not give to you as the world gives. Do not let your hearts be troubled and do not be afraid.


Themes

Consider these themes and ask your group what else they see in the passage:

  • FILLED WITH THE SPIRIT | Meditations on the Ministry of the Holy Spirit

  • Teacher | Reminder | Keeper


Formation 

Thoughts and notes you can use for discussion:

  • What aspects make for a good life in NYC? 

  • If we pay attention to our city we can hear the question being asked, being lived. WHAT MAKES A GOOD LIFE?

    • We see the Spirit of God at work in Creation.

      • In the opening moments of Genesis, in the poetry of the creation account in Torah, we have a picture of God as Spirit.

    • We see the role of the Holy Spirit in initiating New Creation 

      • When Jesus goes to begin His public ministry, we have this powerful picture again. The picture is of the Spirit as a Bird, descending on Jesus.

    • The Holy Spirit gives birth to the New Creation community of Jesus 

  • All of what we see Christ doing throughout the Gospels is done in the power of the Holy Spirit.

    • And this is the very same Spirit that fills you and I. The life of God in the soul of a person.

    • Jesus says in the upper room…

      “The Holy Spirit, whom the Father will send in my name, will teach you all things and will remind you of everything I have said to you. Peace I leave with you; my peace I give you.”

  • John 14

    • The Spirit of God Teaches Us - instructs us, helps us with discoveries of who God is.

    • The Spirit of God Reminds Us of what we have come to know - often in crucial moments the Spirit will pull into our minds and hearts who Jesus is, what God has said is true about us, how life actually works.

  • Jesus’ expectation for us is that the Spirit will give them a share in the peace that He experiences. The Holy Spirit will give them, give us a share of The Shalom of God.

  • 2 Corinthians 5 says … “if anyone is in Christ, the new creation has come: The old has gone, the new is here!”

    • You may be familiar with a translation that says if anyone is in Christ they are a new creation.

    • THE HOLY SPIRIT MAKES US ALIVE IN A WAY THAT WE WERE NOT BEFORE

  • The apostle Paul puts in “I pray that out of his glorious riches He may strengthen you with power through His Spirit in your inner being, so that Christ may dwell in your hearts through faith.” – Ephesians 3 v 16-17

  • THE SPIRIT COMES TO DWELL IN OUR INNER BEING.

  • Romans 5 says the Holy Spirit has been poured into our hearts.

    • So now there is a new way to live, a new way to operate, a new way to change that is not simply our already formed MIND, WILL, and EMOTIONS.

    • We are in the REALM OF THE SPIRIT.

    • Our minds are renewed, and our decision-making is changed by God.

    • ONE WAY TO UNDERSTAND THIS IS OUR SOUL BEGINS TO BE HEALED 

  • THE GOSPEL IS NOT JUST PUNCHING YOUR TICKET FOR AN AFTERLIFE IN PARADISE. IT IS HEALING YOUR SOUL SO YOU CAN BEAR BEING IN GOD’S FULLY REVEALED PRESENCE 

    • SO YOU CAN BE FULLY ALIVE.

    • Therefore we do not lose heart. Though outwardly we are wasting away, yet inwardly we are being renewed day by day. “

      – 2 Corinthians 4 v 16

  • How does this reality inspire you to change how you live? 

  • THE SPIRIT IS OUR TEACHER AND REMINDER

    • BUT THERE ARE SOME PLACES THE SPIRIT HAS PROMISED TO MINISTER TO US 

    • TO TEACH AND REMIND US.

    • SCRIPTURE. WORSHIP. COMMUNITY. PRAYER

  • How much is your life ordered around the practices that engage specifically with the Holy spirit? 

  • SCRIPTURE. WORSHIP. COMMUNITY. PRAYER

    • The Spirit might teach and remind us in many ways in our life, but these are four places we can expect the Spirit to minister to us

    • THIS IS A CRUCIAL PART OF THE HEALING OF OUR SOULS

  • Scripture - the stories of Jesus, God’s work in the world, in the armor of God, the sword of the spirit is the word of God

  • Worship - the narrative of the Scripture shows us over and over again that God inhabits the praises of his people. 

    • The ministry of the Spirit is to lift of the life of Christ. When we worship we are agreeing and participating in that.

    • Worship helps to re-orient our affections, it begins to direct and reinforce our love to the highest aim of God rather than some other lesser thing.

    • So those lesser things find their proportion and place 

  • Community - the priesthood of all believers, we minster the Spirit to each other, where two or more are gathered in God’s name, God is there.

  • Prayer - as we grow in talking and listening to God we learn to discern how God speaks to us, often in a still small voice in our inner being, prompts and invitations to love, conviction or correction when we have drifted from God’s way

  • So the Spirit is teaching, but the Spirit is often teaching by reminding …

    • Reminding 

    • I often experience this as conviction in my heart or mind…

      • Of identity + Of correction + Of promises

  • ASK THE HOLY SPIRIT TO BE YOUR INSTRUCTOR AND REMINDER TODAY, IN YOUR INNER BEING.

  • I want the last words of this meditation to be the words of this prayer for the ministry of the Holy Spirit…

    • I pray that out of his glorious riches he may strengthen you with power through his Spirit in your inner being, so that Christ may dwell in your hearts through faith. And I pray that you, being rooted and established in love, may have power, together with all the Lord’s holy people, to grasp how wide and long and high and deep is the love of Christ, and to know this love that surpasses knowledge—that you may be filled to the measure of all the fullness of God. 

      Now to him who is able to do immeasurably more than all we ask or imagine, according to his power that is at work within us, to him be glory in the church and in Christ Jesus throughout all generations, for ever and ever! Amen.” 

      – Ephesians 3 v 16-21

  • Pray this prayer over one another in your small group, family, marriage, friendships…


June 2: Groups Guide

About This Guide

The online groups guide is designed as a teaching series companion to foster discussion, study, and prayer, especially in a group setting.

Join a weekly group for a meaningful way to connect to our community.

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Download this PDF to help you make a plan to follow Jesus in your everyday life, including diagnostic questions to help get you started.

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Love

Teaching Text:  Roman 8: 9-14

You, however, are not in the realm of the flesh but are in the realm of the Spirit, if indeed the Spirit of God lives in you. And if anyone does not have the Spirit of Christ, they do not belong to Christ. But if Christ is in you, then even though your body is subject to death because of sin, the Spirit gives life because of righteousness. And if the Spirit of him who raised Jesus from the dead is living in you, he who raised Christ from the dead will also give life to your mortal bodiesbecause of his Spirit who lives in you.

Therefore, brothers and sisters, we have an obligation—but it is not to the flesh, to live according to it. For if you live according to the flesh, you will die; but if by the Spirit you put to death the misdeeds of the body, you will live.

For those who are led by the Spirit of God are the children of God.


Themes

Consider these themes and ask your group what else they see in the passage:

  • FILLED WITH THE SPIRIT | Meditations on the Ministry of the Holy Spirit

  • Advocate | Intecessor


Formation 

Thoughts and notes you can use for discussion:

  • How do you observe shame being used or leveraged in our culture? 

  • Specifically, do you see shame playing a role in relationships you have?

  • Is Christianity a set of thoughts about God in our head that we have organized in the right or satisfactory way or is it something more?

    • Certainly, there are essential beliefs, but what is the experience? 

    • And since the experience can be so subjective, can we really say anything definitive about what must be true of it?

  • Is it dangerous to have a set expectation about what the experience of being a Christian should be like to be real and true or enough?

  • We certainly have testimony from the ages, from the saints of the past that the same Christian life might have rapturous joy in God's presence; a full emotional fire at God's nearness and also seasons of dryness, distance, and even dark nights of the soul.

  • Jesus said “it is good that I go away, because My Father will send you The Spirit” - THE PARAKLETOS

    • The Helper, Comforter, Advocate, Intercessor. This word is so rich and holds for us some pointers to the ministry of the Holy Spirit.

  • Jesus prophetically tells them about the sending of the Holy Spirit and the Spirit's ministry.

  • And then they wait and pray and wait and pray, and at Pentecost—50 days after the Passover—Christ died as the Lamb of God who takes away the sins of the world.

  • WE HAVE THE OUTPOURING OF THE HOLY SPIRIT

    • The Spirit is poured out, and the church is born.

  • And the community they form by the Spirit is an heart-stirring and beautiful

    • “They devoted themselves to the apostles’ teaching and to fellowship, to the breaking of bread and to prayer. Everyone was filled with awe at the many wonders and signs performed by the apostles. All the believers were together and had everything in common. They sold property and possessions to give to anyone who had need. Every day they continued to meet together in the temple courts. They broke bread in their homes and ate together with glad and sincere hearts, praising God and enjoying the favor of all the people. And the Lord added to their number daily those who were being saved.” 

      – Acts 2 v 42-47

  • They see Jesus’ promise prove true.

    • They experience the Holy Spirit as Parakletos. Helper. Comforter. Advocate. Intercessor.

  • SO: Yes, Christianity is something you believe 

  • But it is also something you experience

  • And it becomes something that you live.

  • And if you have only had the belief, the thoughts about God organized a certain way, and never the experience, never the fullness of life, I want to tell you THERE IS MORE

    • More of Jesus. Poured out in our hearts and minds and bodies by the Holy Spirit.

  • “You, however, are not in the realm of the flesh but are in the realm of the Spirit, if indeed the Spirit of God lives in you. And if anyone does not have the Spirit of Christ, they do not belong to Christ. But if Christ is in you, then even though your body is subject to death because of sin, the Spirit gives life because of righteousness. 11 And if the Spirit of him who raised Jesus from the dead is living in you, he who raised Christ from the dead will also give life to your mortal bodies because of his Spirit who lives in you. 

    Therefore, brothers and sisters, we have an obligation—but it is not to the flesh, to live according to it. For if you live according to the flesh, you will die; but if by the Spirit you put to death the misdeeds of the body, you will live. 

    14 For those who are led by the Spirit of God are the children of God.”

    – Romans 8 v 9-14

  • The Spirit of God makes us alive in Christ. In the Gospel.

  • The realm of the flesh is about living the human story by human resources

    • The realm of the flesh is all your natural resources for living that don’t include awareness of, surrender to, or love for God.

  • The realm of the spirit is living with a dependence and trust on the loving kindness that is God.

  • Two ways the Spirit ministers the life of God in us 

    • The Spirit lifts our shame

    • The Spirit helps us pray

  • The Spirit lifts our Shame | Advocate

    • Applies what is true of Jesus to us 

    • Forgivness for all sin 

    • Power to break free from any pattern or thought 

      • Uncontrollable anxiety 

      • Lust and pornography  

      • Destructive patterns with alcohol 

      • Anger and a vision of masculinity rooted in aggression rather than sacrificial love 

      • Love of comfort 

      • Measuring success in materialism 

      • Really defensive when criticized 

      • The Holy Spirit is my advocate

  • THE SPIRIT HELPS US PRAY | Intercessor

    • “In the same way, the Spirit helps us in our weakness. We do not know what we ought to pray for, but the Spirit himself intercedes for us through wordless groans. And he who searches our hearts knows the mind of the Spirit, because the Spirit intercedes for God’s people in accordance with the will of God. 

      And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose.”

      – Romans 8 v 26-28

    • When you pray you aren’t praying alone.

    • When you are out of words, you can still pray 

    • No matter where we start we can come to alignment with God’s will through prayer 

  • What place of your life does shame reside? 

  • How is the Spirit trying to address that place and apply what is true of Jesus to that part of your life?